Relationships are like a deep lake of feeling, with pearls of morality and fountains of love. Their depth, charm, attractiveness and sweetness are directly and indirectly connected with life and interestingly, the closer they get, the faster they grow and flourish. Where their coolness and freshness lead to peace of mind. From day one, God Almighty has fulfilled this goal by establishing a family so that the doors and windows of our relationships remain open and human beings interact with each other, and more than that, they know each other’s feelings and emotions. Continued to be irrigated. Undoubtedly, it takes decades for this fact to emerge and not be connected to it.
But when the thorns of ego, depravity, rebellion and hurting others grow in nature. So things get worse Where the emotions of others are hurt and fill the poison of bitterness in life and a thorn of rebellion is enough to trample on the sanctity of these relationships, the swelling and pain of which lasts for many years. It is a beautiful bond of natural awareness in which we are all connected and each relationship has a unique pearl that has a unique status in its identity and value. Let’s say it is a beautiful bouquet of unity where each flower has its own fragrance and mood which gives others a feeling of freshness due to its fragrance. Undoubtedly, closeness spreads the veil of love, where each other’s feelings are discussed and the buds of feelings inhabit the hearts of others, which removes hatred and cruelty from our hearts.
Breaks the web of innovations and misfortunes. In such a difficult and difficult time, only the lamp of love has to be lit. Thanks to which rights are protected and intentions are fulfilled. Whether one accepts this fact or not, one can complain to one’s own. Because it applies to the ability to accept and nurture emotions. If the sanctity of relationships in modern times is examined. Time shows the opposite, and when our priorities change, the standard of honor is no longer what it used to be. When the walls of innovations are built in nature, doubts and suspicions arise in the hearts, the ego of the ego gets stuck in the neck, it is decided to humiliate each other, compete with wealth, get down to stubbornness. So there these pearls are broken and scattered and the scattered thing has no value and the lying thing can be trampled under one’s feet. Today time has torn us apart. Everywhere we look we see scattering and tension. Everyone has their own set of seasons. He begins the journey of his life by following what comes to his heart. Our mutual unity is gone. We have bound ourselves to the magnetism of principles and broken the scale of love where humanity thrives and the sanctity of that expectation is restored.
It seems we have become accustomed to traveling aimlessly. We have no destination and no way. On the contrary, we have reflected on the screen of our minds such dangerous and deadly rays of thought which, due to their harmful effects, have deprived us of thinking and understanding. And secondly, the intoxication of freedom has made us so helpless that we have neither our own news nor that of others. We are entering an environment where the smoke of grief and sorrow rises. We cannot see, nor can we think, nor can we propagate our thoughts. Let’s talk about cultivating some relationships. How do they come into being? And what are the driving forces needed to keep them afloat and prevent them from breaking and disintegrating? Of course, there is no contradiction in this and no one can be disappointed that Homes are inhabited by love and when love cools down, atheism increases, which breaks up the family. Individuals are lonely and disintegrated, their power and authority is lost, the worm of jealousy eats away at the union, the termites become termites, the walls of unity fall, the filth in the hearts and the mind. I am filled with the poison of hatred, we always blame others, and put ourselves in the ranks of the righteous.
If these relationships are to be rebuilt, then a new strategy, hard work, effort, equipment and time are needed. Man should always have signs of flexibility in his instincts so that he does not have difficulty in falling again. In this regard Of course, cracks do not disappear, but remorse and anxiety remain in our hearts and minds. While it is important to take care of parents’ self-esteem in life, other relationships are not insignificant in appreciating their usefulness. In my opinion, the foundation of a strong relationship is the shadow of feeling, where others find satisfaction and comfort. Today, instead of falling into the trap of alien relationships, you need to make an angle on your thinking where your emotions can move easily. But one thing does make us realize that relationships without harmony are punishable for life. Neither their debt is paid off nor the walls of ego are broken. with regret They have neither the steam of love nor the door of light. Where these two things do not exist, life is like a barren land. Then only camels of obsolete ideas can grow in this land. Which cause stinging and pain for others. If God has connected you to relationships. So be sure to have a measuring instrument of sanctity with you to restore them.
By : Malik Fahad Shakoor